Oh, I empathize with the emotions you're wrestling with, but not even professionals have a crystal ball. We honestly don't know how our kids will change and evolve over time so while our kids won't outgrow a disability, I would discount anyone who says "your child will always..." or "your child will never..." Such statements have been proven wrong time and time again. Take heart, Jeannie.
I was hoping for your perspective on this Julie. I do try to keep in mind that every behavior is fluid and anything can change. But in knowing that, I know nothing, really, and that is the source of both my relief and my grief. The not knowing.
Oh, I empathize with the emotions you're wrestling with, but not even professionals have a crystal ball. We honestly don't know how our kids will change and evolve over time so while our kids won't outgrow a disability, I would discount anyone who says "your child will always..." or "your child will never..." Such statements have been proven wrong time and time again. Take heart, Jeannie.
I was hoping for your perspective on this Julie. I do try to keep in mind that every behavior is fluid and anything can change. But in knowing that, I know nothing, really, and that is the source of both my relief and my grief. The not knowing.
Thank you for your kind words, Molly. They encourage me when I doubt whether I should be writing anymore or not.